"What's The Big Secret?"!
I'm sure it's no secret any more ... and I doubt if it ever was. Take a look at this and I'll comment in the next post.
'Inside Out' is the name of my Coaching Programme. Why Inside Out? Simply because that's exactly how changes must be made! Everything starts with a thought. And that thought starts within. Change that thought and you change all that follows. For changes to be made, this is where to start. Turn now. Think Now. Only then can the external world, your external world be affected and be changed. Turn ... from the Inside Out!
The TV presenter, journalist, historian and author will be remembered for his catchphrase - "I've started, so I'll finish" - heard often during his interrogation of subjects in the black leather chair. And it's that phrase that has been ringing in my head all day today. I'm good at starting things ... very good. My creative mind continuously spouts out new ideas and projects. It's a non-stop floodgate of new ideas. BUT ... I'm not so good at finishing! I guess I'm a procrastinator. I'm a perfectionist. I can always find a reason to keep improving, adding, changing, updating. "I'll just do this then it'll be ready." Of course I never am!
I'll write later about the problems of New Year Resolutions, but my new Goal for today, no, FROM today is:
I've started, so I'll finish
Thanks Magnus.
PS What have YOU started that needs finishing? Do it now!
John Gordon
The Indside Out Coach
www.MagicWorks.co.uk
PS What can you get help in doing that'll raise the bar?
The Crocodile Hunter, Steve Irwin, aged 44
has died in a horrific accident involving a stingray
while filming an underwater documentary in Queensland
I have delivered the program many times before and this is I think my 7th time with this organisation but it will be the first time with this particular group. In fact, they are not a group and most won't know each other.
This week I am redesigning some components of the program so I will post agian later wityh some comments and observations on what I am doing, why and then next week I'll report on the success.
For now
John Gordon
The Inside Out Coach
www.MagicWorks.co.uk
After all that!
We all make mistakes but hopefully we learn from them. We take corrective action and be seen to be doing so. Our response to life is what matters.
People are forgiving IF they see true learning, forgiveness and change, growth.
We can make a huge error disappear, with some appropriate action.
But we can also make a small error into a lasting problem if our response is one of denial, refusal, arrogance or whatever. If we blame others and do not take responseability for our own actions, then there are no lessons learned and everyone can see that change and growth are not forth coming and that there is a likelihood therefore that the same or similar or worse will happen again.
Whatever happens, it is our response that shapes us ... and an apology is a first step in our response ability.
John Gordon
The Indside Out Coach
www.MagicWorks.co.uk
Here's a 'Newsnight' tribute to Syd.
At the end, Joe Boyd (from The UFO Club) says that "there is still a tremendous influence of Syd's sensibility in all the songs that Roger wrote and Dave wrote ..." That's over a period of 30 plus years.
Such is the power of creating from within and allowing growth organically, ensuring that the original core values and beliefs and essence is developed but retained. And that's why Pink Floyd are still a success today.
There's much to be learned from this topical example, one I not only have empathy with but a person and lifestyle that provided me with many other life tools during some vital years of teenage change and growth. More on that when I am able.
John Gordon
www.MagicWorks.co.uk